Technical Difficulties….Walking in the Fog…Root Canal Redux

OK, today’s message will be a mix o’ stuff, kinda like the holiday
potpourri you may be buying at this time of year. Hope you like
potpourri (but can you pronounce it?)

First off: Thank you kind readers…those of you who have emailed
me about a “missing link” – actually a non-functional link – in
the email you were sent to confirm your subscription.

As far as I can tell, if you have clicked the link you have, indeed,
been confirmed as a subscriber for these tips. So you can settle
down and relax. I think it’s all OK, but let me know if you are
having any problems receiving your tips.

We have checked with our email vendor and they are investigating
the nature of the problem. When you click, you should be brought
to a page on the Best Breathing website, telling you that you are
confirmed.

We’ll get it taken care of – but thanks again for alerting me to
the problem. I’m not the most technologically savvy person, but
I do try to do a lot of the website and set-up stuff myself, so I
know how it all works. And I try to be attentive to detail but,
sometimes, stuff just don’t work like it’s supposed to.

Moving on…..My second topic is to update you on my root canal.

Thank you again for all of the kind messages of condolences.
Wow, I had no idea that so many people have had root canals.
Most confirmed how unpleasant a procedure it can be.

Just to update you, I am doing quite well. A little discomfort
here and there, but nothing major.Actually, the area in my jaw
where they stuck in that looong novacaine needle is the only sore
spot.

And I have not – repeat not – used the Vicodin! No Rush
Limbaugh story in the making here. I think I have a slightly
addictive personality as it is, so I stear clear of narcotics
and powerful pain relievers. I prefer to relieve pain the
natural way, through breathing and visualization.

Which leads me to my final topic – breathing to add zest and
enjoyment to your activities.

This morning I set out for my daily walk / run – but it was
quite foggy out. We live near Lake Travis, so morning fog is
nothing unusual. But we were really socked in.

So it was kind of eery walking down towards the lake. I
couldn’t even see the lake til I was quite close.

I noticed something interesting: with my lovely view denied me,
I found myself naturally turning inward. I focused even
more than usual on my breathing. It truly enhanced my walk.

You know, any kind of activity you do, from working at your
desk, to lifting weights, to walking or running, to having
sex…can be enhanced through breathing.

“But wait a minute, Karen. Isn’t breathing natural? Don’t we
automatically breathe the way we need to when we do something?”

Well, yes and no.

We usually breathe the way we need to when performing some
type of movement that requires energy.

For example, next time you have to pick up something reasonably
heavy, observe how your body reacts.

You’ll find that you naturally tense your abdominal muscles,
your core muscles, and hold your breath for a second as you
lift up the object. These actions provide you with greater
strength and stability.

But I’m constantly amazed at how many people do not carry this
natural breathing and tensing pattern into their exercise
program.

Over the years, I’ve learned the importance of getting my
breathing in synch with my movement. I did it at first to
help compensate for what was then a severe case of asthma.
But I quickly realized that breathing properly helped enhance
my power and stamina.

Whether lifting weights, performing bodyweight exercises
(calisthenics), stretching, walking, running — the activity
doesn’t matter. When you learn how to breathe, and then apply
that to your chosen activity, you will see what a difference
it makes.

Not just in terms of performance and results. But also in
terms of your enjoyment of the activity, and the great feeling
you get after completing the activity.

That’s why, at the end of my walk or run, I don’t feel
fatigued – even though I usually finish be coming back up
the steep hills leading to our house. Instead, I feel great,
ready to take on the world.

Have a great weekend, my friend!

You Can Do It!

Karen Van Ness

www.BestBreathingExercises.com

P.S. In the Secret Power of Dynamic Energy Exercise Course,
Volume I: Invigorate and Rejuvenate, I teach you how to breathe
AND how to coordinate your breathing to your movements. You can
then apply this to virtually any type of activity. To experience
the sensation of being relaxed, in rhythm, and in control, order
your copy of program today at the Best Breathing Exercises
website. Here’s the link if you would like more information:

http://www.bestbreathingexercises.com/dynamic_energy1.html

Copyright, Karen Van Ness, 2010

A Technique That Releases Tension, Makes Working out Easier

If you’re beginning an exercise program, or getting ready to step
up the level at which you are training, be prepared for some
breathlessness.

Anytime you resume training after a layoff, or begin to train more
intensely, your body needs some time to adapt.

When it comes to aerobic types of activities, this means you may
become breathless more quickly than you expected.

If you are out of shape, or have any kind of lung condition (whether
acute or chronic) you may be more sensitive to the sensation of
breathlessness.

In the past, my asthma would sometimes influence how sensitive I
was mentally to any breathlessness. When I was training and
starting to get really out of breath, I would always ask myself,
“Is this workout really that hard, or am I this breathless because
of my asthma?”

It takes experience and sensitivity to be able to feel the
difference. And sometimes, truth be told, you just don’t know for
sure.

At any rate, when you do get out of breath, there is an easy
technique you can use to help normalize your breathing, and help
you feel better.

I call it the “Rapid Exhale” technique. Pretty original, huh?

Quite simply, you inhale through your nose, as deeply as you can
at the moment. Then, without hesitating, you make an “O” shape
with your mouth and exhale quickly through your mouth.

You are trying to exhale most, not all, of the air in your lungs
as quickly as possible. So during the exhale, your cheeks should
puff out. This produces a back pressure in your lungs. You then
quietly exhale any remaining air.

Repeat this two or three times, then breathe normally again.
Assess how well the rapid exhales have helped your breathing.
Repeat them if needed.

It’s effect is a combination of the back pressure mentioned above
and the fact that you are emphasizing the exhale. This helps break
up any spasm in the lungs that may be going on. It also helps
regulate the movement of your diaphragm, which is the major muscle
that supports breathing.

By the way, this technique can also help you if you develop a
“stitch”: a cramp in your side (they can be quite painful).

You can use this technique pretty much anytime you need to. You
don’t necessarily have to be running or exercising to use it.

For example, if you are getting breathless from walking up steps,
use this rapid exhale a few times to help normalize your breathing.

You can also try using it anytime you are busy, stressed, or have
been so focused on a task that you haven’t moved (or breathed
deeply) in awhile. Repeating the rapid exhale several times can
help you release tension in your body.

You Can Do It!


 

www.BestBreathingExercises.com

P.S. Another great way to release tension and stress from your body
is by taking a few minutes to do the breathing and stretching
exercises in the Secret Power of Dynamic Energy Exercise, Volume 1:
Invigorate & Rejuvenate
. They’ll leave you feeling relaxed, calm,
and energized. For more information, head on over to the  
Best Breathing Exercises website today.

Copyright, Karen Van Ness

The Ultimate Exercise

One of the best exercises you can do on a regular basis is walking.

It’s a great way to take a few minutes for yourself, get outside
and breathe some fresh air. I love to head out and walk, or do a
combination of running and walking (such as intervals), for 45
minutes to an hour, at least three to four times per week.

You don’t have to do that much to reap the benefits. If you only
have time, or stamina, for 15 or 20 minutes, you should still go
for it.

I used to think that walking was too “low key” to benefit me. I
put all of my time and effort, aerobic-wise, into running or riding
the stationary bike.

One summer, I did some volunteer work in Costa Rica. We were working
in a small town called Los Tornos, near the Monteverde region up in
the central mountains. (If you’ve been to Costa Rica, you’ve probably
been to Monteverde.)

Most of our work was done outdoors. We did a lot of walking (up and
down hills) and took most of our meals outdoors as well.

About halfway through the trip, I realized that I felt fantastic.

I figured out it was the combination of clean, clear mountain air;
walking a lot every day; and being outdoors most of the time,
surrounded by incredible natural beauty, rather than cooped up in
an office.

Prior to the trip, I had been worried about my conditioning levels
falling off. I had a fight coming up within 4 weeks of returning
(talk about bad timing!). And, given our schedule, I knew I would
not have time to work out.

Well, when I arrived home, I was in better shape than ever. I was
able to run longer, lift more, spar more rounds — I felt like a new
person.

This sold me on the benefits of doing a lot of walking in the
fresh air – especially walking up and down hilly terrain.

You can take your walking up a notch by doing it the “deep breathing”
way.

In the Secret Power of Dynamic Energy Exercise Course, Volume 1:
Invigorate & Rejuvenate

I teach a method of complete breathing that you can use to maximize
the benefit you receive from aerobic types of exercise, such as
walking, running, biking, etc.

A simple cadence to follow is to inhale through your nose for a count
of 4; hold for a count of 2; exhale through your nose for a count o
f 6; hold for 2; then repeat.

Breathe into and out of your lower abdomen. Picture and feel your
lungs filling up, then emptying  out, completely as you cycle through
each breath.

Try to inhale and exhale through your nose as long as possible. In
fact, if you are beginning an exercise program, breathe through your
nose only. If you start to have trouble doing this, slow down your
pace until you recover.

If you are already fit, or have been walking for awhile, you can
enhance the effects of your walking by adding hills into the mix.
I follow a very hilly course here near my house, with rolling but
mostly descending terrain heading down towards the lake, then
some steep, long hills for the last third or so heading back up
the hills to the house.

If hills alone aren’t enough for you, or if you are progressing
in your conditioning, you can charge up the hills at a fast
pace for even more lung and stamina-inducing power. 

If you are really working the hills, you will naturally get out of
breath and need to pant through your mouth. The key is to regain
control and return to nose breathing as quickly as possible.

You can apply the same method to your running, biking, or any
aerobic activity, for that matter. In fact, nose breathing is used
by some elite trainers when working with their clients.

It really forces you to maximize the use of your lungs. In return,
you get even more out of your walk or run than ever before.

You Can Do It!

 

 

www.BestBreathingExercises.com

P.S. Another important benefit of walking with deep breathing is
that it heats up your metabolism way more than just plain old
everyday walking. If you’d like to lose some weight, this is a
great way to start.

Get Your Sunshine Fix

Hey there amigo!

Sorry I’ve been out of touch for a week or so. It’s been one of those
periods of life where things have been comin’ at me fast and furious. Travel,
presentations at conferences, working on my businesses…..coupled with
a nasty stomach bug that made the rounds through the entire family. Including
one of the dogs! Yuck!

Anyhoo, we got through it. I’m finally coming up for air. I’m back writing
to you, which is one of the highlights of my day.

I can tell my schedule is out of balance by one key indicator: whether I
have been able to get out and walk or run. I walk or run – or some
combination of the two – just about every week day. I love it! And I love
being out in the fresh air and sunshine.

Nothing like a good brisk walk or run – especially along the rolling
(and sometimes quite steep) terrain that I journey along – to clear the
mind and rekindle the energy and enthusiasm.

Being out in the sunshine is important this time of year, because the
days are getting shorter. Despite what the conventional wisdom says –
you know, the admonishments to stay out of the sun, always cover up and
wear sunscreen, and so forth – it is actually healthy for you to get some
sun.

In addition to the mood and energy-enhancing benefits, sunshine also
provides us with our most important source of Vitamin D. If you are into
better breathing and better health, you want to make sure you are getting
sufficient Vitamin D.

Over the past several years, there has been renewed interest in, and
appreciation for, good ol’ Vitamin D. There has also been some good news
about the benefits of Vitamin D for lung health and better breathing.

I don’t always report on the first study or finding that comes out on something.
Frequently, a second or third study comes out that refutes or minimizes what
the first one promoted. So I tend not to get too excited until I learn more.

In this case, there have been a number of scientific studies on the effects of
Vitamin D on lung health. And the findings are very encouraging.

A few years back, researchers from Kings College found that Vitamin D can
substantially improve the responsiveness of asthma patients to steroid therapy.
Some people with asthma, a chronic lung condition, become steroid resistant.
This can severely limit their medical treatment options.

After some promising lab findings, the researchers did a small pilot in which
people with steroid-resistant asthma took Vitamin D3 supplements on a daily
basis. After 7 days, lab tests indicated that previously steroid-resistant cells
in their immune systems were now responsive to steroids.

The researchers also think that Vitamin D3 can help improve responsiveness
to steroids, even in people who are not resistant. This could mean a decrease
in the dosages required to control asthma.

In a separate study done at the University of Auckland in New Zealand, researchers
looking into the effects of Vitamin D on lung function found that patients with
higher concentrations of Vitamin D had significantly better lung function, compared
with patients who had lower concentrations of Vitamin D.

(By the way, I am giving a very high level synopsis here. Reading detailed
research findings is about as exciting as watching paint dry.)

More recent studies in the US and abroad have confirmed these findings, and
also supported getting more Vitamin D in our diets for better bone health
as well.Everyone typically focuses on Calcium, but we need Calcium and Vitamin D
acting in concert to strengthen our bones and help prevent or slow the onset
fo osteoporosis.

How can you use this information?

Well, as always, I have to say “check with your physician”. However, it’s easy
to get more Vitamin D into your diet.

Vitamin D can be found in the following foods: eggs, butter, cream, halibut,
herring, mackerel, salmon, sardines and shrimp.

Dairy products in most countries are fortified with Vitamin D, making this a great
source if you don’t have allergies or sensitivities to dairy.

A wonderful source of Vitamin D is cod liver oil. This used to be administered in the
“old days” to help prevent rickets and tooth problems. Cod liver oil is also a great
source of Vitamin A, which is very beneficial to lung function.

Vitamin D supplements are pretty inexpensive. The recommended daily amount is
400 to 1,000 IU. Amounts over 2,000 IU are considered to be potentially dangerous.

Perhaps the best source is getting out in the sun for 15 minutes or so each day.
Your body synthesizes Vitamin D when exposed to sunshine. And, like I said, getting
out in the light on a frequent basis is good for you for other reasons too,
including elevated mood and energy levels, and better stress management.

So take a look at your diet. If you don’t think you’re getting enough Vitamin D,
you may want to supplement. And be sure to get out in the sun a little each day,
even if it’s just a quick walk at lunch.

It’s one more thing you can do to help your lungs and promote healthy breathing.

You Can Do It!

 

 

http://www.BestBreathingExercises.com

P.S. Another important thing to help promote healthy breathing and all the
benefits it provides, is to learn how to breathe correctly. In the Secret Power
of Dynamic Energy Exercise Course, Volume 1: Invigorate and Rejuvenate
, you learn
how to breathe with the Complete Breath, as well as seven other breathing exercises
that will have you feeling relaxed and energized at the same time. You can read
more about it at the Best Breathing Exercises website.

Copyright, Karen Van Ness

Protect Your Foundation

Stress is stealing away your life, even if you don’t realize it.

You see, stress, fatigue and chronic pain manifest physically as increased tension
and tightness in the body, particularly in the large muscles of the torso, such as
chest, shoulders and back.

This is why neck and back pain and headaches are so prevalent today.

Stress can also cause your breathing to weaken and become more shallow. When
you take in less oxygen, your system doesn’t work to capacity. You feel physically
fatigued and mentally foggy and fuzzy.

These reactions to stress put into motion a cascade of hormonal and neuromuscular
changes that can have dire consequences for even the hardiest of us.

Your posture also changes when you’re under stress. You turn in your shoulders and
hunch forward. You may notice that you cross your arms more frequently.

These are all signs of the protective impulse…. of your body collapsing in on itself in
an effort to protect you physically from more abuse.

Problem is, the tightness and tension in your muscles, along with the stressed, hunched
posture, create huge imbalances and overloads on your spine.

The spine is the foundation of your body and one of its critical centers of energy.

Sitting, standing and walking compress the spine to varying degrees. The high proportion
of time many of us spend sitting is particularly tough on our backs.

After years of sitting at desks, in meetings, on the couch, or on airplanes, the spine loses
its resiliency.

This in turn affects the entire nervous system, causing decreased energy, backaches,
headaches, neck and shoulder tightness….even moodiness, irritability, and the inability
to concentrate or focus.

The secret is to free the tension and tightness from your entire torso area, so that the
breathing spaces are wide open and free, and the spine is extended and lengthened.

Open breathing spaces mean full, complete breathing. In turn, this expands your lungs’
capacity to infuse larger amounts of oxygen into your body, and more effectively remove
wastes and toxins from your system.

Elongating and loosening the spine helps free up vital nerve force and energy, as well as
release tension.

The combination of the two is a powerhouse!

It leaves you with a loose, relaxed, energized feeling. It not only invigorates — it’s a major
pathway to physical health and wellbeing.

You may think it difficult to achieve this combination of opening, freeing, and releasing.
You may think you have to pay big bucks to visit a chiropractor or massage therapist
every week.

Well, it’s not difficult at all. Nor is it expensive.

For starters, I highly recommend taking several short stretch breaks throughout the day,
especially if you are spending long periods of time sitting in meetings or clacking
away at the computer.

Get up, stretch up, stretch to the sides, lean forward and down, rotate your
shoulders. All loose, relaxed movements. Synch your movements to your breathing for
even more relaxation and re-energizing.

There are even some stretches you can do while sitting in your chair – if you’re
too lazy to stand up.

If you’re interested in really loosening, relaxing and re-energizing, you can easily
discover how with just a few minutes of listening to the Secret Power of Dynamic Energy
Exercise Course, Volume 1: Invigorate and Rejuvenate.

The course consists of two series of seven exercises. The first series focuses on dynamic
breathing coordinated with easy, flowing movements.

The second series helps stretch, relax and rejuvenate your entire torso area, with special
emphasis on the spine and back.

These amazing exercises stimulate, strengthen, and rejuvenate you.

They help you instantaneously relax AND improve your energy levels. You’ll feel more in
control, rather than at the whim of the latest crisis. After doing the exercises for just a few
days, any back or neck pain you have been experiencing will be history.

The Secret Power of Dynamic Energy Exercise Course provides you with a quick, easy,
enjoyable way to rejuvenate and protect your foundation. I’d love for you to give it a try.

To learn more about this incredible course, head on over to the Best Breathing Exercises website.

You Can Do It!

 

 

www.BestBreathingExercises.com

Copyright Karen Van Ness, 2010

How to Make the Normal Cycles of Life Work For You

As you know from reading my blog, I’m a big proponent of using targeted,
effective breathing techniques and exercises as one of the cornerstones of
robust fitness and health.

This emphasis is due to one overriding phenomenon: the correct selection and
sequence of breathing exercises work.

I’ve experienced the benefits firsthand, in myself as well as others with whom I
have worked directly, or who have purchased and put to work the exercises in
my Secret Power of Dynamic Energy Exercise Course.

I’m always searching for new methods or techniques to add to my arsenal. I
think it’s important to have multiple tools, or variations of tools, to help you.

We all need some variation in our routine or training. This helps us avoid becoming
stale, and is important to ensure additional progress.

In my research, I’ve been pleasantly surprised to see that breath training is being
used more and more in athletic training.

For example, many coaches now train their athletes in the proper use of
breathing to help enhance performance, focus better mentally, and recover
more quickly and fully from their training or competitive exertions.

Seems what’s old is new, and what’s new is old.

I’ve realized that each person’s experience with breath training to improve
their fitness or health follows along the same type of paradigm as does physical
training.

In athletic training, athletes and coaches follow the practice of periodization.
This means they emphasize different things in training as the athlete cycles
through general training, to sport-specific training, to the competitive, or
“in-season” phase.

Within the periodization paradigm, cycles of improvement and assimilation
are always included — at least in a rational program.

What this means is that training science and application have proved what
we all intuitively know: that any development, whether physical, mental,
emotional — or even spiritual, for that matter — follows natural cycles of
progression and regression.

In training, as in any kind of self-improvement or health enhancement program,
you will make progress for awhile. Then you will experience a period of
little or no progress. Or you may even feel like you are regressing a bit.

This is natural and to be expected. It is so natural and powerful that
training programs of all types take this into consideration. They actually
build in these periods of assimilation or regression.

While this can be frustrating, it’s also magical. If you recognize and embrace
the periods of regression you are experiencing for what they are, you can 
emerge from them capable of making even more dramatic strides and
improvements.

This is because, during the slow or stagnant period, your body and mind are
still developing. It’s happening beneath the surface, beyond your conscious
awareness.

Your systems are busy assimilating the gains in training, or knowledge, or
self-awareness you have achieved during the growth phase. This prepares
them for additional growth and development.

The key for you is to recognize these cycles for what they are.

For example, even with breathing exercises that are extremely effective, you
may experience periods in which your body has adapted to them.

To counter this, you can try performing the exercises in a different order. Or
you can stop performing certain exercises for awhile, and introduce others
into your routine.

This is one reason why I will continue to come out with additional programs
that use dynamic breathing as a means to health and fitness. They add
variety, sustain interest and enthusiasm — and they work.

Occasionally, I even stop doing my regular exercises completely, for as long
as a week or two. This is a way for me to test their effectiveness and see
whether they really make a difference.

I can tell you this: within a week or so of not doing them, I feel the difference.
And I’m always very enthusiastic about returning to them.

You Can Do It!

www.BestBreathingExercises.com

P.S. Introducing breathing exercises into your daily routine is not complicated.
Try doing some deep breathing as soon as you wake up each morning. Perform
at least 8 cycles of full inhalations and exhalations, with an emphasis on the
exhalation. You’ll be amazed at how energetic you feel as you move into your day.
Copyright 2010 Karen Van Ness

How to Extend Your Life

Recently, a new study came out that actually quantified the life extension benefits
of regular exercise.

The study determined that regular exercise, which they defined as “doing a little
something every day”, can add as many as four years to your life.

Now, four years may not sound like much to a lot of us. But when I ran this by my
parents (who are in their early seventies), they thought it sounded pretty darn good.

The key for them: these are four healthy years that are added. No one wants to
live longer yet be incapacitated, either physically or mentally.

But adding four years of active, productive living is very meaningful. Think how many
things you could do, or how many moments you could enjoy, in four years.

Engaging in a more active lifestyle today helps you on two fronts. First, you’re more
healthy, feel better, and enjoy life more today. Second, you’ll enjoy more life and
better living when you get older.

I harp on this a lot in my tips because I know many adults have either drastically
reduced their activity levels, or given up on exercise altogether.

The reasons may vary from person to person, but they often include things like:
no time; no energy; had an injury and stopped; don’t know how; etc, etc.

I know this because I’ve used some of these same excuses myself.

I learned the hard way that this is about the worst thing you can do. Maintaining
activities and at least some exercise on a regular basis is one of the keys to
maintaining, even enhancing your energy levels.

It also helps you be more productive. If you devote just 15 to 30 minutes for
exercise, you can add as much as two additional hours of productivity to your day.

Here’s another fact to consider: as you get older, you have to continually work on
building and maintaining your vital capacity, the ability of your lungs and heart to
do their jobs efficiently and effectively.

Vital capacity naturally diminishes as you get older, unless you do something
about it. If you’ve been inactive for any length of time, you have even more incentive
to build yourself up, because you’re starting from a lower level.

From my experience training clients, I’ve found out that many people shy away from
conventional exercise programs. They think they are in such bad shape that they
will injure themselves, or not be able to perform at a decent level.

They also sometimes dread the thought of working out at a gym. They think everyone
else will be in shape. They worry that they will not know which exercises to do
or how to use the machines or weights.

If you think you’re not yet capable of conventional exercise…OR if you are intelligent
enough to know you should start out slow….you can get started today with the
exercises in the Secret Power of Dynamic Energy Exercise Course, Volume 1.

The exercises in this course open up the breathing spaces of the body. They stretch,
extend and work out all the kinks along your entire spine, a critical source of energy.
And they help you easily and effortlessly loosen up your body, from calf to neck.

They’re easy to learn and do. All it takes is a few minutes per day, and you’ll start to
feel like a new person within a few days.

Performing the movements regularly provides an excellent way to prepare your body
and “re-introduce” yourself to exercising.

Whatever you do, the important thing is to get moving, even if it’s only for 15 or
20 minutes each day. Build some type of activity into your daily routine. Within
a few days, you’ll feel better, have more energy, and enjoy a more positive outlook.

For even more incentive, remind yourself that you are also giving yourself more
years of life.

You Can Do It!

Best,
Karen Van Ness
www.BestBreathingExercises.com

P.S. Even if all you can do is walk around the house a few times, get busy and
get going. Remember Newton’s Law: “A body in motion tends to stay in motion.
A body at rest tends to stay at rest.” If you take the first few steps, you’ll be amazed
at how quickly you can overcome inertia and gain momentum.
Copyright Karen Van Ness 2010

Focus on What You Can Control

I’ve been a long-time devotee of the martial arts. In fact, I’ve
studied, trained and taught in various styles, off and on, for over
35 years. There have been gaps in my training, but I always come back
to it, often with renewed vigor and enthusiasm.

Because, truth be told, there is so much to learn in the martial arts!
And the more you learn, the more you realize you have yet to learn.
So it’s truly a lifetime endeavor.

Probably one of the most fun periods in my training was when I did
full contact kickboxing. I know that sounds crazy, describing it as
“fun”. But it was!

However, I have to admit, when I first started I was a little apprehensive
about what a full contact fight would entail.

I had competed before, but only in tournament competition, where the contact is
(theoretically) controlled, and competitors who make excessive contact are
(theoretically) disqualified.

Of course, there is the potential for injury in this type of sparring, just as there is
in every sport.

But in full contact competition, you are getting into the ring with someone who
wants to knock your block off. Or, at a minimum, beat up on you more than you
beat up on them in order to win the fight.

As I trained for my first fight, I was trying to focus on all the right things in terms
of my physical and mental preparation. I had been through this type of
preparation before, so I knew what I was doing.

But the fear of getting injured kept creeping back into my head.

As I thought about and tried to analyze this fear, I realized that what I was really
afraid of was getting knocked out and embarrassed.

I thought about my opponent coming at me and really laying it on. I wondered
if I would be able to counter with a sufficient level of aggressiveness. I moved
completely away from concentrating on what I needed to do to win the fight.

This type of thinking resulted in increased apprehension and anxiety, and caused
me to get completely off track mentally. I felt myself literally tighten up and my
training suffered.

Fortunately, after a few days of this, I realized what was going on and put an
end to my negatively focused thinking.

I did this by changing my focus from what I couldn’t control to what I COULD
control.

Instead of thinking about what my opponent might do to me, and what might
happen as a result, I began to focus my thinking on what I was going to do to
my opponent.

I concentrated on the techniques and tactics that I knew would work best for
me. I recommitted myself to the physical training that my instructor had mapped
out for me.

As a result, I won my first full contact fight with a unanimous decision.

The more significant outcome, however, was what I learned from the way I
handled my fear and apprehension, and how this helps me in dealing with
the stresses, issues and problems that are so much a part of life in today’s
hectic world.

If you’re a human being, you can probably relate to the feelings of being totally
at the whim of outside forces, feeling like you have no control over many of the
events, both trivial and major, that can serve as stressors in your life.

When facing a challenging situation, you may have experienced increased stress,
apprehension, anxiety, and even fear. This is a natural reaction. We are inherently
afraid of change, and afraid of people and events that take us out of our comfort
zone.

Instead of focusing on what you could do about the situation, you probably focused
on what was being done to you, or on what might happen to you.

What I learned from fighting is that you have to focus on what you can control.

You may not be able to control all of the crazy, out-of-left field events, or even the
trivial daily annoyances, that life throws at you. But you CAN control how you think
about and react to those events and annoyances.

When you focus on what you can do, you begin to establish a method for handling
surprises, challenges, and bad news that minimizes stress and anxiety.

Through simple strategies and techniques, such as the dynamic deep breathing
taught in the Secret Power of Dynamic Energy Exercise Course, Volume 1 , you learn how to
temper your reaction, calm yourself, and regain control over your mental and
emotional state.

Focus on what you can control.

You Can Do It!

Karen

http://www.BestBreathingExercises.com

Copyright Karen Van Ness 2010

Take Time to Regroup

As I mentioned in a previous post, I’ve been in San Francisco
this week at a conference.

It was fun, I learned a lot, and I got a chance to see – and meet –
a lot of people with whom I collaborate. I had to present and speak a
few times. And I tell you, no matter how many times I present, or
record a video or audio session….I still get nervous. Just part of
the game for me, just the way I roll, I guess. The few times I have
NOT been nervous before a presentation, I….. well, let’s just say
it didn’t go so well. I’ve learned that being nervous is a good sign,
whether it’s just before a sparring match in a tournament, a presentation
in front of a large group, or even a meeting with a prospect or client.

Although I still dislike the feeling I get – and, I imagine, that you
get too, before you have to speak in public.

You know, that feeling that hits you right before you go on. The “I wish
I could just blow this off and not have to do it…maybe the AV guy will
not be here to set things up so I can’t give my presentation…maybe
no one will show up and I will be off the hook….” etc., etc., etc.

Well, I got home late last night and I decided to embrace today as a
regroup / rejuvenate / catch up day.

No specific agenda; no specific schedule, other than dropping off and
picking up my son from school today. Oh, and we are going to the local
high school’s football game tonight. The town is abuzz because it’s
homecoming. We have to show our support!

But I digress. I bring all this up because of how important it is to
take time to regroup once in awhile – and I wanted to share with you a
few thoughts on this.

The time spent away from the daily routine, enjoying the comraderie of
fellow corporate warriors, and especially enjoying the unique sights of
that “city by the Bay” … all contributed to an interesting and exciting
week.

But, I have to admit, even I felt tired last night as I drove home
from the airport.

If you have been through one of those “sprint” periods, during which you
are running at lightning speed because of everything going on…or if
you face any type of chronic health condition…or if you are going through
a period of pressure, tight schedules, and stress, it’s important to
learn how to regroup.

If you suffer frequently from health problems and / or symptoms related
to stress, you may be continually preoccupied with your situation. You
lose focus on, and enjoyment of, the rest of your life. You may become
so inwardly focused that you lose touch with the people and activities
that mean so much to you.

When this happens, it’s hard to realize what a negative impact it’s having
on you, emotionally, mentally and physically.

Regardless of the cause, you need to take the time to “process” what
is happening.

This helps you move on and get going with your life again.

Regrouping is shorthand for a way of negotiating the maze of every day
challenges, as well as rising to the occasion when life throws you a
curve ball. It’s also about embracing the uncertainty of life and seeing
the adventure. About learning how to bend, not break.

Regrouping doesn’t have to involve a week or a weekend away, although
that can be very beneficial if you have the time.

It can be as simple as being “off a schedule” for a day – still working
on things but not being a stickler for the to-do list or the clock –
kinda like what I am doing today.

It can also be as simple as taking a few minutes out of your hectic day
to simply sit, breathe deeply, and be.

If you have been going through a bad spell, take a moment to reflect on
the deep reservoir of endurance and strength you naturally cultivate when
you face a chronic condition or challenging situation. You may not always
feel it’s there, but trust me, it is.

Use these few minutes to gather yourself and tap into that reservoir.
Remember that you are a survivor, you are tough. You are also flexible.
You can bend like the willow tree to adapt to current conditions.

You may not always feel in control of your life or the circumstances
surrounding it. In fact, you may often feel like circumstances control
you. But you CAN control your response to circumstances and challenges.
You can also control your response to the emotions, such as anxiety,
frustration, and anger, that are so prevalent these days.

By taking the time to regroup, you assert control at a very fundamental
level. This is one of the first steps to helping yourself overcome the
stress associated with much of modern living. It’s an important way of
asserting control — and feeling in control is a prerequisite to being happy
and satisfied with your life.

Discovering your own best way to regroup is time well spent. It’s a skill
you can use for the rest of your life.

You Can Do It!
Karen
http://www.bestbreathingexercises.com/

P.S. In the Secret Power of Dynamic Energy Exercise Course, Vol 1, I teach a very 
effective and beneficial method for regrouping and regaining control. It’s
easy to learn and only take a few minutes to do. To start benefiting now,
order your copy of the course today at http://www.bestbreathingexercises.com/dynamic_energy1.html.

Copyright, KVN Enterprises, Inc. 2010

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Nature Gives You the Tools

Excess stress and tension can have a “hidden” impact on your overall health.

Chronic stress has been shown to negatively impact the immune system. Because
this is happening “behind the scenes”, so to speak, you may not even be aware
of it.

When you experience stress, or if you have been chronically stressed for some
time, you have a decreased immune system reaction.

You may notice you are more susceptible to illness, such as colds and flu.
And you may experience more serious symptoms than you normally do. Even
minor things like a cough or cold hit you harder.

The good news is, nature provides us with some built-in tools to deal with stress,
regardless of its causes. You just have to take the time to recognize these tools
and put them to good use.

I’ve been in San Francisco this week, attending a major conference. Major as in,
about 40,000 attendees! Supposedly it’s the largest computer or IT conference
in the world! I can tell you, we have certainly taken over this part of the city!

My participation has included a presentation, some video recordings, some media
briefings….plus other assorted meetings and briefings. It’s been hectic,
sometimes crazy hectic – but fun.

And it has given me the opportunity to take my own medicine, to follow my
own advice.

Any time I have felt myself beginning to feel stressed, to get tight, I have
reminded myself of the following:

Part of your response to stress is physical in nature. In fact, you can observe
yourself at random times to determine how well you are handling life’s stresses.

For example, stop what you are doing and take a look at your posture. How are
you standing or sitting? Are your shoulders, neck and back tight or uncomfortable?
Are you hunched over?

Also attend to your breathing. Is your breathing rapid and shallow? Do you feel
tightness in your throat or chest? Do you breathe through your mouth? Do you
sometimes hold your breath when you are in the middle of something?

As you observe yourself, do so without making any judgements or engaging in
negative self-talk. Just become aware of what your posture and breathing are
telling you.

Also be aware that stress contributes to a huge number of health problems, and
can literally take years off your life. And the physical manifestations — poor
breathing, poor posture, back and neck pain, headaches — cause you to live at
a lower level of vitality.

They prevent you from achieving your full potential in life.

To reverse the effects of stress, begin with your breathing and posture.

This seems simple, but it’s a direct and powerful way of addressing two important
foundations for your health. Proper, complete breathing, and a strong limber
structure that supports good posture, are tools that nature has provided you.

Stress, chronic or acute health issues, immune system malfunctions: these are all
systemic problems. So you need to take a system wide approach if you plan on making
significant progress.

By progress, I don’t just mean relief of symptoms, although that’s very important.
I also mean counteracting or even eliminating the root causes. When you take an
inside-out approach, you begin to heal your body from within.

You Can Do It!

Karen
www.BestBreathingExercises.com

P.S. You own the tools that nature has provided. Learn how to put them to good
use in combating stress, poor breathing, or chronic fatigue with the Secret Power
of Dynamic Energy Exercise Course. The exercises in the course are easy to learn
and easy to do. But they pack a real wallop. For more information, head on over to
www.BestBreathingExercises.com.