Restart Your Year – Now!

We’re already into the third month of 2024. How have you done so far on your New Year’s resolutions or the goals you set for this year?

If you’re like the majority of folks, you’ve already slipped, backslided, or simply given up on your goals. The famous dictum within the fitness world is as follows: the gyms will get super crowded in early January…but by the third week in February, the crowds have mostly disappeared and it’s just “the regulars” again.

Well, I’ve got wonderful news for you!

It’s not your fault.”

You see, setting new goals and resolutions in late December or early January is just about the worst possible time to do so.

Winter is the most Yin time of the year. The reduced light, shorter days and longer nights, and cold temperatures naturally encourage us to sleep more and become less active. Our metabolism and energy levels decrease in winter. Nature’s idea is that we should slow down, use less energy, and basically “hibernate” during the cold, lean winter months.

And yes, even in our climate-controlled, well-lit modern existence, our bodies, brains and energetic matrix still respond to nature’s call.

Energetically, this most Yin time of year is just the worst in terms of gearing up to conquer ourselves, move forward toward new challenges, and push to achieve our goals. The energetics of winter are more about quiescence, going inside to ponder and reflect, develop some wisdom, and help the body rest up and recharge.

Lunar New Year Just Concluded

Here’s a suggestion: Instead of beating yourself up for not making better progress….or berating yourself for having already given up on your stated resolutions or goals…start all over!

Yes, restart your year now.

The Chinese Lunar New Year just concluded in February. So it’s a brand new year! The year of the Wood Dragon, by the way, which is quite auspicious. The Wood element means growth and development, rising energy, and many other good things (which we will discuss in a future post).

And now we are experiencing the first glimmers of Spring.

If you live in the northern states or climes, you may still be experiencing cold weather and even snow. But you likely are detecting some signs of Spring, including the days getting longer. Where we live in Central Texas, we have already been mowing the lawn, cleaning the beds, and planting new flowers. In fact, we just put the garden in!

Spring means Yang Ascending – the energies are increasing. So it only make sense to ride that energetic wave, recommit and refocus on your goals, and get moving.

Declare it a new year and move forward with renewed vigor and expectancy.

You Can Do It!

Dr. Karen

Three Steps to Make Things Happen

What are your goals and dreams for your life?

What do you want to do, be or have before you kick the bucket?

Did you know that many people have no idea? If you were to ask
them, “What are your most important goals?”, they would have
trouble answering you.

Hence the saying that most people spend more time planning their
vacations than they spend planning their lives.

Establishing goals and planning for the type of life you want is
so important. Human beings are goal-striving organisms.

If you doubt this, think about a baby just learning how to walk.
The baby is driven to master this new skill. She could be content
to continue crawling, because her parents will still pick her up
and carry her to wherever she needs to be.

But the baby is driven to learn how to walk, to be able to go when
and where she wants to. She may fall down a lot, but that doesn’t
stop her. She is fixated.

She also has support from her environment. Her parents and other
adults around her encourage her. They look at her with that gaze
of positive expectancy. They know that, despite the falls and
setbacks, she will indeed learn how to walk.

Just like that baby, you too need a goal or goals to strive for.
A worthy goal helps keep you on track. It gives you positive
expectation and hope that your life will get better.

However, before you begin to run full speed ahead toward your
goals, take a few minutes to plan and reflect. Put the power of
your imagination and your emotions to work for you.

(1)IMAGINATION. Imagine yourself after you have accomplished
your goal. How does it look? How does it feel? Imagine the
possibilities.

(2) FAITH. Believe it can happen. More importantly, believe it
can happen for YOU! As the Bible says, “Faith is the substance
of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.” Provide
yourself with that positive expectancy, that certainty the
parent has when helping the baby learn how to walk.

(3) ACTION. Here’s where the rubber meets the road. Get going
and make your dreams happen! Take the small initial steps that
serve to correct your course toward the direction you wish to
go. Small course corrections today can mean major changes in
your life tomorrow.

Keep on track. Get back on track when you mess up. There’s
plenty of time and space for you to do what you need and want
to do.

BONUS STEP: IMAGINATION. Yes, back to imagination. Every day,
use that image of goal achievement – what you will be like
and how you will feel once you achieve your goal – to keep
you going.

Remember: each day, each discipline, each new thing learned
builds on the others, propelling you towards your goals and
dreams.

You Can Do It!

Karen Van Ness

“Best Breathing Exercises: Transform Body Mind and Spirit with
Dynamic Energy Exercise!”
http://www.bestbreathingexercises.com/

Copyright, Karen Van Ness, 2011